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7 Ways to Deal With The Pain of Sexual Shame
Shame leaves people feeling like they’re not good enough, they’re selfish or unworthy and undeserving of pleasure. Given the seriousness of shame, why aren’t we talking about it? Why aren’t we challenging it? And why do so many of us trying to deal with our suffocating shame alone?
How To Have Better Solo Sex in Masturbation May
Whatever you call it, masturbation is something that’s an important part of many folx lives - whether it’s out in the open or behind closed doors.
Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies
Many folks are missing physical and sexual connection with their partners right now. Yet solo sex is one of the safest thing you can do; and for many, fantasies are an important part of solo sex.
When You Don’t Feel Like Sex - And Why That’s Okay
The reasons some folks don’t want to have sex or don’t feel like being sexual are far reaching, pretty common and all valid. In this article we’ll take a look at some of the reasons why you or your partner(s) might not be feeling desire in the way you expect - and why that’s okay.
Sex and Relationships in The Time of COVID-19
Many of you have probably wondered, given that so many people are spending more time at home than ever before, is everyone else just having lots of sex? The answer, as you probably expected, is complicated
Ending The Culture of Painful And Unsatisfying Sex
The pervasive culture of tolerating painful or unsatisfying sex has existed for eons. Here are five critiques of the myths that maintain a culture that normalises pain, teaches people to endure unsatisfying sex for a partner’s sake or makes it hard for them to say no to sex they don’t want.
Prioritising Pleasure - part 2
Changing the culture of sex and pleasure is necessary to shift the dominant narrative away from a view that states that pleasure is only available for certain bodies towards pleasure being available for everyone without limits.
Prioritising pleasure - Part 1
Your pleasure is your responsibility and dismantling pleasure-negative culture can start with you. Read on to learn more about the ins and outs of pleasure.