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How do I access my desires when I don't know what I want?
Where did the idea come from that people should be experts at sex, to know exactly what they want before they’ve ever tried it and to communicate this with confidence? You can’t tell how good something is going to taste before you’ve tasted it, so why do we hold unrealistic expectations of ourselves when it comes to sex?
Painful Sex: Understanding Why Painful Penetration Occurs & What Can Help
Pain during penetrative sex or the fear of painful penetration can impact anyone, in diverse ways, with numerous different contributing factors. When all people in a relationship are working to address painful penetration together, and when those people can access resources to understand and begin to address causes of painful sex, positive outcomes are possible.
Is It Possible To Change your Desire?
Is it possible to adapt your sexuality or shift your desire so it’s a better fit within your relationship? Or is there a more helpful approach to reducing desire related distress in relationships?
Body Image, Sex and Pleasure
It’s no surprise that how you feel about your appearance can significantly impact your wellbeing, mental health and your sex life.
How Masturbation Could Improve Your Sex Life
If you’ve ever struggled to experience pleasure during sex, find sex uncomfortable or awkward or have yet to experience an orgasm, it makes sense why you might not feel like partnered sex or why you may experience a lower sexual desire. Prioritising self-pleasure can be an effective way to exploring your sexuality and reigniting your sex life.
How To Have Better Solo Sex in Masturbation May
Whatever you call it, masturbation is something that’s an important part of many folx lives - whether it’s out in the open or behind closed doors.
Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies
Many folks are missing physical and sexual connection with their partners right now. Yet solo sex is one of the safest thing you can do; and for many, fantasies are an important part of solo sex.
Sex and Relationships in The Time of COVID-19
Many of you have probably wondered, given that so many people are spending more time at home than ever before, is everyone else just having lots of sex? The answer, as you probably expected, is complicated
Prioritising Pleasure - part 2
Changing the culture of sex and pleasure is necessary to shift the dominant narrative away from a view that states that pleasure is only available for certain bodies towards pleasure being available for everyone without limits.
Prioritising pleasure - Part 1
Your pleasure is your responsibility and dismantling pleasure-negative culture can start with you. Read on to learn more about the ins and outs of pleasure.