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How do I access my desires when I don't know what I want?
Desire, Pleasure, Communication Kassandra Mourikis Desire, Pleasure, Communication Kassandra Mourikis

How do I access my desires when I don't know what I want?

Where did the idea come from that people should be experts at sex, to know exactly what they want before they’ve ever tried it and to communicate this with confidence? You can’t tell how good something is going to taste before you’ve tasted it, so why do we hold unrealistic expectations of ourselves when it comes to sex?

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How do we navigate a relationship when one partners libido is much lower than anothers?
Desire Kassandra Mourikis Desire Kassandra Mourikis

How do we navigate a relationship when one partners libido is much lower than anothers?

It’s common for partners to have differences in desire, something that most people in partnerships will experience at some point. While this difference is normal, few of us taught how to navigate it and the feelings that arise with it, contributing to growing anxiety, distress, resentment, avoidance and sometimes even the end of a relationship.

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How Masturbation Could Improve Your Sex Life</strong>
Masturbation, Pleasure, Desire Kassandra Mourikis Masturbation, Pleasure, Desire Kassandra Mourikis

How Masturbation Could Improve Your Sex Life

If you’ve ever struggled to experience pleasure during sex, find sex uncomfortable or awkward or have yet to experience an orgasm, it makes sense why you might not feel like partnered sex or why you may experience a lower sexual desire. Prioritising self-pleasure can be an effective way to exploring your sexuality and reigniting your sex life.

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